Our Fellowship Programs

Sundays, 10-11 AM

 

At the Durham Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, our Sunday morning programs are a cornerstone of our community, reflecting our commitment to diverse perspectives and meaningful engagement. Join us each Sunday from 10 – 11:00 AM near downtown Durham, as we explore a rich tapestry of insights and connections.

If you are searching for greater meaning, and connection to community, please join us Sundays from 10 – 11:00 AM, followed by a coffee hour with conversation and refreshments. We meet the first Sunday after Labor Day through the last Sunday in May, and hold our annual picnic during May.

What to expect?

During the first hour enjoy music, the sharing of joys and concerns, and unique, community-based programs with local speakers, artists, musicians, civic and spiritual leaders. All programs include time set aside for participant comments, questions and discussion. The program is followed by an opportunity to collaborate and socialize over coffee and snacks.

Upcoming Services

October 25

Laura Cleminson – “The importance of keeping the die-a-logue alive.”

One of the best kept secrets might be that talking about dying and death paves a path to living more fully and gaining clarity about what matters most along the way. Laura will share insights gained from growing a compassionate community with the Pre-Dead Social Club (last year they filled over 1,200 seats at their events) and discuss her belief that everyone has a bit of a death doula in us waiting to be recognized.

November 1

Nancy Crumbine – “Bending the Arc Ever So Slightly”

Through exploring the connection between my two-year old grandson learning the word grasshopper and Joseph Conrad visiting the Belgium Congo in 1899, I want to suggest what language allows us to see, what not speaking allows us to avoid, and how important it is for us to counter the doublespeak, the truthiness, the treason of our age.

Nancy is a UU minister and Professor Emeritus at Dartmouth College. Her work spans theology, ethics, and public engagement, and she has lectured under the auspices of the Vermont, New Hampshire, and National Humanities Councils.

November 8

Larry Vogelman – “Giving Back to Those
Who Serve”

Larry Vogelman will talk about Veterans Legal Justice, a non profit that provides legal assistance to veterans, service members and both their families.

November 15

Michael Ferber – “The Mystery of Language”

If you step back and try to consider the matter with fresh eyes, it can seem amazing that you can read this, and that I can give a talk about this subject and you might come to hear it. What I’ll talk about is why human language is unique among animal communication and why its origin is still mysterious. Why do babies learn to speak so speedily? How did phonemes arise? Are there linguistic universals? We’ll explore together; I don’t have the answers.

Michael Ferber is not a professional linguist but may be the next best thing. He taught English at UNH for thirty years and at Yale before that, and has studied several languages at various depths. He has published quite a few books about poetry, and right now he is working hard on Homeric Greek. He also writes a bi-weekly column on language for InDepthNH, an on-line news feed.

November 22

Betty Crepeau and Dawn Meredith – “The Five Invitations: Discovery What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully.”

We will lead a discussion of the first chapter of this book entitled “Don’t Wait.” The author of the book is Frank Ostaseski co-founder of the Zen Hospice House in San Francisco. He shares his wisdom from Buddhist teachings and years working with people in hospice. In the new year we will be leading several services with discussions about the remaining chapters of the book. We hope you will take a larger part in our discussion by reading a short excerpt of the chapter which we will email to you. Even better, we hope you will commit to reading the book and contributing your thoughts to our discussions over the next few months.

November 29

No program this Sunday after Thanksgiving.

Enjoy your time with family and friends!

Exploring Diverse Perspectives

As a lay-led congregation, our Sunday services are a dynamic fusion of voices. From clergy representing various faiths to speakers from academic, civic, environmental, and social justice backgrounds, our programs embrace a wide spectrum of perspectives. This diversity enhances our understanding of the seven principles of Unitarian Universalism, guiding us in the pursuit of wisdom, spirituality, and impactful daily actions.

A Haven for Friendship and Connection

Our fellowship goes beyond spiritual exploration; it’s a haven for friendship, connection, and shared values inspired by Unitarian principles. Experience a safe and inclusive environment that encourages genuine connections, community events, and a profound sense of belonging. Despite our modest exterior, our interior boasts a beautiful sanctuary, gifted by the Marjorie Milne Estate.

Enriching Families and Children

One of our primary goals is to enrich individuals and families with young children. We provide a space where children can learn from their elders, explore spiritual topics, and understand the importance of inclusivity, equity, and justice.

Welcoming All Voices

We seek to be a place where each person’s unique worth and beliefs are acknowledged and respected, and where each person’s voice may be heard. Committed to providing a welcoming and safe space for all, we recognize the valuable perspectives of our LGBTQIA+ communities and allies.

Community Engagement

Beyond the sanctuary, our fellowship is a hub for community involvement. We prioritize sustainability within our sanctuary, creating a warm, welcoming atmosphere for all. Guided by the principle of “respect for the interdependent web of all existence,” we actively participate in local charitable efforts. From fundraising and volunteering to providing community support, we extend our principles into tangible actions.

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We have radical roots and a history as self-motivated spiritual people. We think for ourselves and recognize that life experience influences our beliefs more than anything. Join us on Sundays from 10 – 11:00 AM, followed by a coffee hour with conversation and refreshments.

Contact Now

We can’t wait to connect with you! Contact us today with any questions or visit us on Sunday at 10 AM for a time of fellowship.

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Convenient location near downtown Durham.
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